Every day in our daily lives we often remember how our life is and what we are doing in it. For most of us, life is all about proving our importance in the environment that we live in. With the people, we do parties with, with the people who we talk to and with the people who think that we are not capable of. Life is all about proving yourself to others with the privilege of having access to everything — This type of life is very common with people who are living in their dogmas.
On the other hand, we see people who live to see their surroundings happy. They are unaffected by the rules of this life. Education, Status, Fame, and Money comes second to them. All they want is happiness and peace between people and those we get in touch with them. This quality is attained by them after understanding their inner self thoroughly. This requires will power, practice, and great observations toward life and the quality of living in it. I would like to call these people as the innocence of adaptation — It is all about the ability to learn and acknowledge their mistakes. Making every obstacle in their life as the stairs of success — These people are unaffected by negative forces.
This undisturbed and undisputed ability comes when we start understanding ourselves. Where we stand, what we do, how we approach, and how we consider a circumstance. When we start understanding about us concerning the people around us, we start to see the change in pour life. As Napoleon Hill said, “We need to mix our FAITH with EMOTIONS for the miracles to happen in our life.” It all starts with a thought and then it will convert into memories that dwell upon our strengths and weaknesses. In this article, I am going to talk about a person who lives her life with all the happiness and unaffected by negativity around the world. Her world is small but still huge. Her circle is moderate but her visions are exceptional. In my years of experience with people and their doings, She is the first person who amazed me and inspired me not only to look at life in another perspective — Perspective so strong that nothing can influence and deviate from the path of success or glory — her story inspired me to attract all the positivity in the world. For the first time, I got the gist of what law of attraction is and how it helps every one of us to become what we want.
I found out about her with her, in the most unusual way possible but yet it is ordinary. As Dr. Happy (Dr. Tim Sharp) says, “To know about a person, ask them first about themselves.” I asked her story from her. She explained it to me in a way that I could understand. Her smile is the symbol of victory she earned by fighting with life and with herself. Her inner beauty is one of the symbols of miracles. Her sacrifice makes her a mother for motherless. We have some wonderful things to learn from people like her where they are the jewels of happiness.
I hope her story inspires you all more than me to build yourself and move toward your goals. This is The Story of a girl with exceptional emotional strength that inspires you in ways that you could never imagine.
The Beginning:
To what its worth, we sustained every challenge that life throws at us. We store memories, collect stories from the day we born in this world.
Once upon a time on the day a girl was born. She has got beautiful eyes and brows where the smile on that baby’s face brought immense happiness to her parents and they rejoiced that day. As the baby girl grows, she started to see the world full of opportunities and the people in it. Her parents filled her life with great values and by observing her family, she started to see things. Her values and the principles she developed as her school and her friends part of it. In school, she made some good friends and saw that world that how colorful it is. She developed a mind to explore people and their behavior and got curious about it. One fine day, “Mom, What can we do in life to be happy and what is the one thing that gives immense satisfaction in life?” the little girl asked her Mom.
Well, her mother gave it a thought about the innocent mind of her girl, called her, embraced her in open arms then made her sit on young mother’s lap; mother answered, “Baby, the most important thing in this world is to help others to be happy and what makes you happy is if you are the one who is responsible for their happiness — An addition inspiration. When you start helping someone, it means you are helping yourself — This will give you immense satisfaction.” Believe it or not, that answer from her mom affected her so much, raised from her values that small baby girl with the cute smile and enthusiasm thought of helping people. So, she wished to become a lawyer one day so that she will be able to help people by giving them justice for what they deserved.
Days went and she grew up to become a little older. 10-years old. She was good at observing people and she was kind to others who were hard on her. She became a good listener. Everybody was loving to spend time with her. Her parents, friends, acquaintances praised her. With the dream of helping people, she started to read books and understand life by asking questions about it with her parents. Her family helped her to understand, live, grow, and encouraged her dreams. She was very good at drawing and doing sketches in her school days. She was praised by everyone with the creativity she had. She was a well-disciplined baby artist. She had a million dreams for the world she’d gonna make.
Turning Point:
At the age of 14, with all the enthusiasm she had, she was dreaming about her life and how it is going to turn out. For every one of us, life gives many chances to become who we are or who we want to be unless there is a turning point in life. These incidents will make us better than what we think we are. It exploits our true potential. There are no good or bad incidents in life, only incidents, that inspire us to take action — Our action decides who we become.
Unfortunately, a similar incident happened in her life. She met with an accident at that age. A major accident that nobody was imagined would happen. It all happened so fast that she didn’t even notice that she was on the bed at the hospital. Her body was completely paralyzed and could not move a bit. Doctors were treating her but her innocent mind is not getting what is happening to her. In the accident, her brain was seriously injured along with her spinal cord and heart. That cute little was never the same. Her dreams, vision, emotional intelligence, and strength were all gone in a flash like our sun exploded all of sudden and entire humanity is wiped out in a fraction of seconds.
Doctors suggested that she needs to be on the bed for a lifetime and there is no way they can make her walk on her own. She was hospitalized for 2 years. Everything for her parents was shattered into pieces. We cannot imagine the pain her family went through. The pain was unbearable for her and her family it was like a thousand pins are throwing at their heart every second for 2 years. Her mother was the one who effected the most for seeing her baby girl who is so beautiful like this on the bed fighting for her life. No motivation can help her family or her this time unless they are motivated themselves as they dissolve themselves in the pool of pain, which will become their only life force.
“When a person left to face with pain every day, he/she adapts to it after some time and that pain will become his/her motivation to move forward with life. Those who break that deadlock will get the opportunity to acquire eternal happiness.” — #ExperienceOfLife
“Pain is enough, let’s find a way to come out of it” her family decided. With a happy face, they all approached in front of that girl with that smile and blistering hope. The girl on the other hand who she was lying on the bed saw them and started to think, “Every day they were coming and by looking at me their face was pale, restlessness and eyes were filled with tears, Now, they are all standing in front of me with the face with hope and encouragement for her to get better.” She saw that beacon of hope in everyone’s eyes that were glittering with tears on their eyeball. This scene of parents trying to inspire their child to get up and have hope about life is so beautiful if that is added with the music of hope, it becomes a great play of inspiration.
She gradually started to believe in herself about everything is gonna be okay and gained strength to make herself strong. That DESIRE to get up and the FAITH of her parents that their child is going to be normal again loaded her with all the ammunition that she needed to fight with her will. She stood up after 5 years of continuous struggle which inspired by FAITH which was mixed with her emotion and great DESIRE to stand for what she believed in life — To help people find their happiness.
Back to Track
As I discussed with you in the beginning that she wanted to become a lawyer and the main purpose of that is to help people find their happiness by giving them justice. She was 19 and her education was discontinued due to the injury. Now it is time to create her education of justice league. This time her friends joined hands with her family to help her reinvent life. As Napoleon Hill mentioned in his book, “Think and Grow Rich” — there are 5 ways of education and to educate is like understanding our strength, and based on that how we act on it. 5 ways are as follows, Own experience, Master Mind Alliance, Colleges & Universities, Public Libraries, Special Training Courses.
Because of the situation, College and University education were far from reach. So she formed the Master Mind Alliance with her friends, family, and with herself to learn as much as she can and never to stop pursuing her dreams. She started to read books, asserted herself as she will become what she meant to be. I want to put this in her own exact words, “After having many problems, every second I fight with mind, my thoughts and of course with my own body.” She dropped out of formal education and started to become her teacher in exploring her soul. Regardless of life which she wanted to live which she dreamt of in her childhood, life made her push her every limit she has and dragged her to become more. With all of these transformations, one thing that helped her to get everything in one place her mind, her body, her heart, and her soul is; her interest and passion toward art and fashion designing.
She started her own business in fashion designing. She serves clients and helps them to bring out the best in them. By her own experience, she learned fashion designing through her art, she reached hundreds of people and inspired them with her designs. Now she is an entrepreneur better than what she wished for when she was a child.
Inspiration:
“The rare people who do become truly exceptional at something do so not because they believe they are exceptional. On the contrary, they become amazing because they’re obsessed with improvement” — Mark Mason
She is one of those amazing people I saw in my life and got a chance to listen to her story. Higher Intelligence works in mysterious ways. We can never predict what is going to happen to anybody or to even us. We only got a present to do something else in life that impacts our future and how we are going to live in it. In this story, we saw how life is turned for a little girl and how she turned around her destiny all at once with her DESIRE to help others.
Currently, she helps hundreds of people and among them, my name is there too. She listens to them each day, requests them to talk to her before taking hard decisions in life where that destroys their life. She loves to read books. She is bookish and rather calls herself as Baby Bookish — This got a nice ring to it, isn’t it? Today her smile is the hope for those who are struggling in life.
Some people still stuck in their dogmas and deceit their minds by not being themselves happy. Going behind money, chasing straight ‘A’s doesn’t help anyone to discover their true passion in life. Every one of us in life, need to understand the fact of living a happy and peaceful life. We are all humans not aliens to each other. We can develop the Master Mind Alliance to become what we wish to become. Egos apart, people together. She didn’t go behind the money of straight ‘A’s in life to achieve what she wanted to become. Her main goal was to help people — That’s it, nothing more. No matter how hard life threw her away, she always had that guts to come back and say I am made for something bigger. I am not giving up.
Her favorite book is The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari by Robin S Sharma. She read books every day as a routine to acquire knowledge. Doctors told her that she can’t give birth to a baby in her life as her body took a lot of beating in that accident. Do you know what she says about this?
“Doc told me you can’t be a mother, that day I was completely broke down in tears. I realized then, ‘yeah I may not be able to conceive a baby but I can be a mother of many orphans….’ and now I am a mother of many children as my 3 pets, Plants and Business to take care of. I am the creator of my life. What made me are my failures, my pain, and my hopeless thoughts.”
How beautiful she stated those words. This inspired me to understand what a person can do when they reach a certain level of pain and win it over. She says that she is the happiest person. Her chubby cheeks, lovely eyes, beautiful smile every happiness within, very fair. At last, I want to complete this article with the words of her about happiness.
“Lots of pain, lots of struggle, lots of tears and lots of failure made me the happiest. All of these not only made myself happy, but others who around me. When you are invincible, whole world will bow down infront of you to learn from you. Be strong and be who you are.”
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