Today I am going to write about a kind of scenario that happened In my life and around me. We all know how money plays an important role in our life, right? Even though these days money has gained importance more than eating food because to eat one should have money. Till yesterday I was in a bad shape with life and I was thinking, “Nothing for me in this world to see as I am so exhausted from looking after my parents and some friends who I had to choose between just to be with them.” The worst part, I even thought about taking sleeping pills and sleeping forever — I was in that mental condition because I had no money — They say empty pockets teach us millions of things but not everybody here is able people to endure the pain of lack of money.
That is how life is. It is ruthless and hard. The reason why I am telling this is to say how life changes in an instant. Somebody like me who was completely broken a day before and now I am writing an article to tell their world that if you are in pain, that’s okay and things will get better in life after some series of small gestures from the people around you.
Find your happiness especially that adrenaline boost that keeps you breathing. Let me break it into 3 parts so that you can understand what I am writing. Mistakes, People, and Money.
Mistakes
We all do mistakes in our lifetime there are infinite times we wonder if we could have done better. I did many mistakes too as I made my parents suffer the loss of me running away from home for 3 years to achieve my dream, I failed to self-sustain and also I did a mistake in taking the right decisions at the right time in life so I ended up landing nowhere in life.
Even after all this, one good thing that happened is that I can accept the mistakes I did and learn from them. Acknowledging that we did something is the first step for you to release yourself from the burden inside you. This alone will not make you happy but at least it will free your mind a bit for the next process. So, I suggest, try to accept your mistakes. How to do that? Self-reflection.
“Know yourself by making your mind to talk less to you and see the actions you did as it is. Neither in other’s perspective nor yours.”
Once you can see yourself as you are then the truth about the current situation you are in will start to come toward you. It is the easiest way for you to release yourself from the prison you have created for yourself. Still, my dad never understood the mistakes that he made in his life and I think he will never do that because he doesn’t know what self-reflection is.
If you are such a person here is a tip for you, start listening to the opinions of others around you and ask them for feedback about you. Don’t ask too many people — Opinions will become biased. This is the first step you can take to be happy in life. Keep those mistakes in mind before committing them again.
People
This is a bit interesting part which I tell to many around me. Remember to have people around you then validation of your lifestyle will become easier for you. Unhappiness is mostly caused by people around you and happiness too. I am not giving any contradictory statement for the sentence, Hell and Heaven are made in your mind. I am just telling people around you affects your lifestyle too. It is not affected only by your mind. So, it is good to have friends, friends who can be there for you and support you.
You might not have bigger goals in mind to achieve or a higher vision — as simple-minded you are — still good friends matter who can raise you from the ground. Along with those good people, give some space for critics too — they are the ones pushes you to be better. Don’t go overboard here, my point is simple, more people you have with you who can support your lifestyle, you will be a rockstar. Why do celebrities or rich guys like to hang out with people like them, not with you and me? That is because the people at the same levels think alike.
Do you know one more thing you can do with people if they are not at your level? You can give your hand to pull them up and make them stand beside you. Even if they go ahead of you so what? Whenever you see them, you can simply say, I made this guy with immense proudness. This will deliver you happiness for a long time. You can set your life to look at people only when you understand yourself — Acknowledging your mistakes — about the current situation.
“Don’t judge people because they are from a different region — Country, Creed, Culture, or Planet — from you. Everyone has their way of happiness and answers to questions. It even doesn’t mean you can talk whatever you can and come to conclusion as they are. Never stereotype anyone because every person you meet is an opportunity to get to know the world better. Even if you get hunted by that individual that’s okay there are still 7.5 billion minds you have to explore and also the whole universe left to take your mind for a tour.”
Money
Third and the most important part of life. It is simple, if you have money, then you will be happy. Until you make money you can’t say money is nothing by listening to some motivational speeches given by millionaires. Successful people always talk to normal people that anyone can achieve what they have achieved but in reality, after reaching the destination your journey always seems to be not so hard because you get that satisfaction when you reach your goal. Money can’t buy happiness but of course, it can make your mind happy and comfortable. Here’s the thing, can you imagine your life with unlimited money, without people around you, and zero conscience?
It will make you mad. Can you imagine life without money, full of good people and high conscience? Both lives are useless. With those lives, you cannot have an impact on this world and give meaning to your existence. Money shouldn’t give a meaning to your existence but with money, better people and the ability to accept your mistakes and correct them will give meaning to your life itself.
As I said, I was depressed yesterday for not having money and having ordinary people around me. I don’t wanted to accept my mistakes too. But today, I have great people around me. I spoke to the most beautiful-minded person I know, Spoke to old friends, went out for a drive, I got a way to earn money and I accepted my mistakes which I hardly acknowledged. So everything turned out to be awesome for me. I suggest you try these 3 steps to attain more happiness in your life.
There is no money without people and there are no good people without conscience.
Until next time. Adios!!!
